Knowing What Makes You Tick in the Bedroom

Your sex life is very paramount to having a healthy and balanced life. Having a signature sex move can make you great in bed and it doesn't have to be anything complicated and well rehearsed. Research has shown that it takes three things to be good in bed: education, practical experience and the right attitude.

But to truly earn your great-in-bed badge, there's one thing you must perfect: a signature sex move. What's this exactly? Well, it literally means how you conduct your foreplay maneuvers. And it might turn out to be a totally original complex maneuvers, known only to you and your lovers.

Need a little help to work out your personal piece de resistance? (Irresistible Masterpiece, I mean), All it takes is a little thought and (perhaps) a little practice.

Well planned foreplay before sex increases the whole pleasurable experience

Step 1: Start from what you are good at

The trick is to focus on whatever sex act you enjoy the most. If you like doing something, you're usually good at it, you usually enjoy it. So you can't really go wrong if you stick to this simple rule. If you could cheerfully massage all day long, for instance, there's your starting point. 

Teach yourself some sensual massage techniques, top the whole delicious experience off with some erotic genital massage and there you have it: a mind-blowing move they won't forget in a hurry.

Step 2: Check around; you don't know it all

Think you've found an erotic innovation that's uniquely yours? Do a quick survey of all your friends, go online to find out how common it is and how well it's likely to be received. That’s how you tweek your sex life; remember variety is the spice of life.

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Step 3: Know and tap into your talent

The best way to find out how your move is received is to practice it. 

Decide on areas you think holds promise? Try out a few different techniques before deciding on one to concentrate on. 

For the sake of this exercise, let's say you've decided to become the absolute master/mistress of oral sex. Check out for those spots that produce the most ‘’aahhhs’’ Learn to apply the right pressure, the right speed and most of all, observe very well.

What happens when you focus on this part? What about that one? Now alter the pressure, carefully noting whether you're going up or down in the ratings game. What about in slow motion? Speeded up? Yes, it does take a few sessions to try it all out but I can't see your partner complaining, can you?

Step 4: Have sex and try it out!

Let all the hints, tricks, tips and research merge into one spectacular sex session with your Iucky-lucky-lucky partner. At first, concentrate hard on combining everything you've learned, but once you're in the swing, relax into it and let your gut instinct guide you. After all, you chose this because you LIKE doing it, remember? 

Sneak a peek to see how they're enjoying the sensation. If you've done your homework and research, there's only one thing you'll see - utter ecstasy! Only one thing left to do now: give yourself a big pat on the back! That's how we roll.